I hate jealous bitches aka people you thought were your friends

Nicole Venglovicova
4 min readJun 11

When you achieve success, whether it’s acquiring a new car, moving into a new home, purchasing a luxury watch, or starting a relationship with a new partner, it’s natural to want to share these milestones with those around you.

However, it can be disheartening when the people you consider friends respond with jealousy or envy. If sharing your accomplishments with your friends leads to negativity and annoyance rather than celebration and support, it begs the question: what kind of friends are they truly?

Jealousy and envy are common emotions that everyone experiences at some point in their lives. However, when these feelings become overwhelming, they can have a negative impact on our relationships and personal growth. This blog post will explore the psychology behind jealousy, provide strategies for overcoming it, and offer insights on how to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

Understanding the Psychology of Jealousy

Jealousy has deep evolutionary roots. It is a response to perceived threats to valued relationships, driven by the fear of loss. There are different types of jealousy, including romantic jealousy, sibling rivalry, and professional envy, each with its unique triggers and manifestations.

The underlying causes of jealousy often stem from insecurity, fear, and comparison with others. For example, seeing a friend achieve success can trigger feelings of inadequacy and a sense of unfairness, leading to envy.

Should you cut off people who don’t support you?

Personal growth and success are often nurtured in the company of those who not only celebrate your achievements but also propel you towards greater heights. How can one maintain positivity and strength when the very friends they rely on are the ones undermining their success?

I’ve experienced this firsthand, with individuals who were once my closest allies. The moment I tasted a modicum of success, their demeanor changed. They became negative…

Nicole Venglovicova

Content creator, Youtuber and business owner based in London.